How to Love Yourself into a Rich, Satisfying Life even with a tough Inner Critic.
How do you feel radiant and confident if there’s a constant voice in your head telling you you’re not enough, too much, or underserving?
Do you often procrastinate the very things you desire most? Do you put off the things that matter to you most because it’s just not time yet? Is your inner critic loud and constant? Do you feel you need to be more or do more to have the things you crave the most?
If so, then how do you change this?
The short answer: By prioritizing your pleasure and desires, from the daily to the epic, right here and now.
Here’s how I know.
Since I was a child, I had always wanted to go to Europe. What had stopped me from going as an adult was that I hadn’t felt like I had earned it yet. What had I told myself? I wasn’t it the place in my life where I was supposed to be. I needed to work on my career. I needed to be fluent in French first. It was too indulgent. It wasn’t the right time…The list went on.
Pushed by my sister, I booked a 13 day trip to Paris. I explored what it was like to be on my own in another country. To move when I felt like moving. To do what I felt like doing. To allow myself to be seduced by my own senses. To feel lonely at times. To find romance in my aloneness. To date. To meet new people. To be amongst beauty everywhere. To watch the sun set in the City of Lights. To know I had said Yes to Myself. Right then, I fell even more in love with myself.
When I returned, I asked myself how I could bring “Paris” to my life every day, no matter where I was or what I was doing. I questioned what other deep desires I had put on hold because I had this inner thinking that I hadn’t done enough to deserve them.
I decided to study Romance and Pleasure for a year, which turned into several years, and has now become a Lifestyle. I made a commitment to make my life more beautiful by living as if I was on an eternal vacation, adding romance to as many of the details of my life. From buying myself fresh flowers weekly, to joining a French institute, to opening up a travel Savings, I’ve found ways to create more rituals to cherish myself daily and open my life up to more adventure. To Delve Deeper into Your Desires, schedule a FREE 2 Hour Powerful Conversation with me.
Knowing my pleasures has become the gateway to more Joy, Serenity, and Motivation.
What I discovered is that it’s not necessary to go to another part of the world to enjoy Pleasure. My pleasure, My Way Of Being, My Way of Moving in this world is now my home base, no matter where I am.
Now I take pleasure in inviting women to explore not only their desires, but their desires underneath their desires. The feelings they are seeking. These sensations that can be lived and breathed into the here and now.
What’s Your "Inner Paris" look like?
I’ve developed my “Be Your Own Legendary Love” Package, for women who seek to live epic lives of wonder and satisfaction, right now, instead of waiting till things are different. It is created to put a halt to that inner voice that likes to say you’re not ready, it’s not time yet, you’re too much, you’re not enough, or your pleasure come last.
In these 12 sessions, here’s some of what we explore:
-Transform Old Narratives that are no longer serving you
-Devote yourself to becoming a Pleasure disciple to your desires and well-being
-Become more attuned to your body’s wisdom, intuition and sacredness
-Be supported with tools to notice the Excuse Making, Sabotaging voice of your Inner Critic in order to make more courageous choices
-Identify YOUR Unique Values your Guiding Light – so you can always have an anchor towards moving towards Fulfilling Choices
-Name Your Sheroes and Heroes and how calling upon Archetypes can help you access your natural strengths
-Explore more of what you are here to do, your calling, through and discover that your Self-love and Your PLEASURE is instrumental to this
Because I believe a woman who lives from her Joy, adds much needed Joy to this planet.
A woman who mothers herself, mothers others from a place of deep nourishment.
And, a woman who is in absolute love with herself, her body, her ideas, her imperfections, her messiness, her wildness, her capacity - attracts that epic kind of loving - by her sheer existence.
Perhaps we should love ourselves so fiercely, that when others see us they know exactly how it should be done. –Rudy Francisco
What I’m offering:
To be committed to your greatness To trust that you are Creative and Whole To stay with you in the “messy” To champion you through moments of self-doubt To challenge ways of thinking that hold you back
“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” -Rumi
I’m seeking women who are willing to:
choose a heroine’s lifestyle over old stories invest in themselves as a priority be courageous to their own desires be committed to stepping out of their comfort zone have some fun while doing the work
One must experience coaching to understand the power of coaching.
I won’t be available to coach every woman, as I’m limited in time and spots available. Also, we need to see if we are a match, as coaching is about Connection. To see if we’re a fit, I’m happy to offer a FREE 2 hour “Powerful Conversation” . Bring one of your Deepest Desires to the conversation.